1. Clear, beautiful and healthy looking eyes. Eyes provide an insight
on the level of health of the individual, and healthy eyes indicate a healthy
mate. It was also surveyed as the most attractive feature according to various
women’s magazines.
2. A confident attitude towards life. Confidence indicates
that you are successful and are to be trusted. When you trust yourself, others
will as well. Women will trust you with themselves
3. Physical height. Height provides a sense of security and comfort which is
very attractive to women. Being taller is also a dominant trait which is
attractive. Ultimately, if you are short but can provide a feeling of security
and comfort, this will be equivalent to height.
4. Physical strength, muscles. Being muscular
provides a sense of excitement and security in women. It also alludes to
dominance which will seduce most women.
5. Being funny. Laughter makes people feel more comfortable and happy.
Also, when people are laughing at your jokes,
you immediately gain social status which is attractive. If you can make her
laugh, you’re half way there. Read how to make a girl smile.
6. Being witty. This is very attractive as it alludes to being smart, and
intelligence is attractive to women. If you are dating then wit will be a big
part of your evening.
7.Being Wealthy. Wealth indicates power, security, comfort and even
excitement. This is very attractive to women whom crave all these feelings.
8. Being playful. Playfulness means that you are fun to be with,
consequently triggering feelings of attraction in women.
9. Being touchy. Human touch is a powerful way to trigger feelings of
attraction. Naturally touchy people have a lot more sex than people whom
refrain from human contact. This is important when you flirt with a girl.
10. Bravery. Being brave,
alert in emergency situations is very attractive and indicates that you will be
able to protect her from danger.
11. Being excited about life.
The energy that people emit when they are excited about living is contagious
and very attractive.
12. Being unavailable.
People want what they can’t get. Being hard ( but not impossible!) to get is attractive.
13. A cocky smile is attractive. Cocky smiles, demonstrated in movies such as James Bond
and Top Gun triggers feelings of confidence and dominance which is extremely
arousing. Read up on how to pick up girls for more information.
14. Genuine smiles in general are attractive. As long as they are a reaction to something that occurred and
not because you are being polite or awkward.
15. Being concentrated on a task is attractive to women. If a woman can watch you while you are completely involved
in a task, then she is likely to be attracted to you. Examples of this can be
her watching you paint, play an instrument, anything you do well that requires
full absolute concentration on your part.
16. Playing an instrument is attractive to women. Wonder why the rock stars get the girls… there are many
reasons but those whom play music are automatically ranked more attractive than
those who don’t.
17. Being famous.If you’re
famous, then by definition a lot of people know you. If a lot of people know you,
you are therefore important. Being important is very attractive to women.
18. Not caring. A care free
attitude is liberating and very attractive.
19. Being well dressed.
Wearing nice clothes demonstrate social status; accentuate your physical features
and shows that you take care of yourself.
20. Unique accessories that match our personality. In our society, accessories that stand out provoke curiosity, confidence and will attract women. “What’s that necklace
you are wearing”, says the girl at the bar.
That is one of the dating tips for how to attract women.
21. Shoes that are in style.
The first thing that most girls notice in guys is what kind of shoes they are wearing.
Shoes speak more about you than all clothes. You can be wearing a diaper on
your head, jeans from the 80’s… but if you’re wearing brand new shoes that are
in style, girls will automatically see you as attractive. If you don’t have the
shoes… get them.
22.Well fitting shirts.
Baggy shirts are out! Shirts should complement your body and show off your features. Now I’m not talking about spandex,
but regular well fitting shirts. You know why suits look good? Because they are
tailored to fit you perfectly. This is attractive to women.
23. A deep, commanding voice.
Your voice says a lot about you, literally. The next time you strike up a chat
with a woman, don’t sound squeaky.
24. Body posture. Within 1
second, just from how you stand, women will judge you as attractive or not Good
body posture indicates that you are a healthy mate and is very attractive to
women. Lean back.
25. Human smell. Sweat, at a
very basic level, is very attractive to women. It triggers feeling of arousalin
women. However, don’t go too far and stink. That’s repelling.
26. Some light, musky cologne.
These smells will mimic the natural smell that males produce and used lightly,
will arouse some females.
27. Leadership. Being a
leader is very attractive to women, it demonstrates social status and importance.
Make decisions, lead the pack.
28. Being dominant. Women
are naturally submissive, and men should be naturally dominant. Unfortunately
with all our yoga classes and hormonal milk, this has changed in the past
century.
29. Being dangerous. Danger
is hot, exciting, energising and can be very addictive. Women love the bad boy.
30. Being intelligent.
Intelligence, demonstrated by high grades, an impressive line of studies or
career is very attractive.
31. Being good with animals. Being
good with living things indicates that you will be a good mate, capable of
protecting and caring for any offspring you could potentially have. This is
very attractive
32. Being good with kids. Same
as above.
33. Being genuinely interested in her. People love people whom are interested in them. If you genuinely
want to know what makes her tick, this will be attractive
34. Being the best, in a group of men. If you are the best out of the competing men, then out of
that
group, you will be the most
attractive to women.
35. Being disciplined.
People want to be surrounded by competent individuals. If you are able to control
yourself when she can’t, she will see you as having a lot of willpower. This
demonstrates that you are in control of your life.
36. Not taking life too seriously. Having the gift to be able to laugh at life and embrace it
as an enjoyable experience. You don’t have to think about marriage every time
you talk to a girl.
37. Being positive. Positive
people are attractive. If you can show her the sunny side of things, she will thank
you for it.
38. Being a little selfish.
Being slightly selfish indicates that you care a lot about yourself and your
well being. This relates to confidence and importance which are attractive.
Don’t be a martyr.
39. Being generous. The
complete opposite of being selfish, being generous can be attractive as well because
it demonstrates that you are not needy and that you are wealthy. Note! Being
generous does NOT mean you should buy things for people so they like you… this
is not attractive. A good example of being generous would be, if you’re with
friends, you could purchase the pitcher of drinks. This subconsciously
communicates that you are in charge, dominant and wealthy.
40. Spontaneity. Very attractive,
alludes to excitement.
41. Good hair. Having nice,
healthy and well groomed hair shows that you take care of yourself.
42. Trimmed nails. Women
notice, if you take care of yourself, she’ll appreciate it.
43. A slight tan. These
days, a tan indicates that you wealthy and physically healthy.
44. Relaxed attitude. Being
relaxed shows a lot of confidence.
45. Being driven. If you
know what you want in life, and you’re pursuing it, this is attractive.
46. Nice teeth. It is very
important to have nice teeth, women think about it every time they consider kissing you.
47. Having nice possessions, such as a car, house or a boat. These indicate wealth, excitement and power, all of which
are attractive.
48. A sense of adventure. If
you’re curious about life, and are willing to take risks. You can lure her into
your world and she’ll be happy to follow you past her limits.
49. Honesty. Being able to
speak the truth is difficult and shows that you have accepted who you are as a person. It also shows that you don’t care
what others think, which is very attractive.
50. Whispering in her ear.
The sense of secrecy, mysteriousness and excitement that comes from a whisper
is very attractive.
51. Being busy. If you are
busy, then you are important, independent and have a life.
52. Being a man. Women love
men who do manly things, stop doing yoga and go play a sport, hit the gym and get dirty.
53. Having a nice butt. A
sexy fitness indicator, attainable through the gym.
54. Pre-selection. If other
women want you, then there must be a reason. Having many people want you makes
you attractive. You aren’t a guy who has time to look at personals.
55. Being genuine. Say what
you mean and do what you say. This is hard, but attractive.
56. Physically picking her up.
Ever heard of sweeping her off her feet? This is it.
57. Touching her hair. There
is something about having your hair touched that is relaxing and arousing at the same time.
58. A nice face. Women love
men with an attractive face. That’s what she’ll be kissing and you better believe it makes a difference.
59. Originality. Women crave
excitement, originality provides that. Seduction is never the same and being original is an essential part of it.
60. Experience. Maturity can
be very arousing; if you know what you’re doing she’ll appreciate it and you’ll get laid more
often.
61. Speaking to her true self.
If you can see past the walls that most people put and truly speak to the real person inside of them, you’ll be one of
the few that understands them. This makes you very important.
62. Independence. People don’t like
neediness, being independent shows that you are self sufficient and can take
care of yourself.
63. Teasing her.
Playfulness, excitement, she loves it.
64. Composure. If you can
keep your cool under stressful situations, she’ll notice.
65. Being selective. If you
are selective, then it implies that you aren’t needy and are valuable enough to
want many people want you.
66. Being challenging. Playing
hard to get is as true for women as it is for men. People want what they can’t
have, and if they have to work for something, they’ll appreciate it much more.
67. Focus. If you know what
you want, and are determined to get it, then that’s attractive.
68. Modesty. No one likes a
show-off. Being modest is great, and attractive. There is nothing better than a girl finding
out something good about you through a friend.
69. Muscular abs. An
indicator of health.
70. Being natural. If you’re
genuine about how you feel, without caring what others think, then that’s attractive. You want
to know if people can handle the real you.
71. Charismatic. If your
spoken words and gestures can warm up a room, she’ll notice and be warmed up as well. If she doesn’t, her matchmaking
friend will tell her about you.
72. Sensual. Some people are
frigid and cold. Some people are warm and very alert to their senses. If you
are in tune with your body, you’ll likely be in tune with hers as well.
73. A man that loves to have fun. Everyone wants to be around a guy who enjoys himself, be
that guy.
74. Goes against the rest of society. No one likes a follower. If you have a conviction about
something, stick with it. Make up your own mind about things and people will
respect you.
75. Caring. Compassion and
caring show that you will be a good father and is therefore very attractive.
76.Persistent. If you go
after your goals, other will notice. This is very attractive as it shows will
power that not many people have.
77. Being respected. If your
entourage respects you, then she will as well.
78. Loyal. People do not
want to get hurt, and will avoid you if aren’t loyal. It is better to remain
single than to get into a relationship you don’t plan on staying in.
79. Romance. Spicing it up
in a relationship is critical and attractive. Don’t always do the same thing because
it will get boring really fast.
80. Drama. Ever wonder why
women love soap opera’s? It is because they crave drama, gossip, secrets. It is exciting and attractive. If you have an
eventful life, people will be attracted to it.
81. The way you move. If you
have calm, controlled and relaxed gestures, then you will be seen as someone
that is confident.
82. A mysterious grin.
There’s something about a grin that arouses curiosity and intrigue.
83. Being extravagant.
Sometimes going over the top is good, if you can let yourself go from time to time, people will
notice.
84. Loving yourself. If you
truly love yourself for who you are, then others will as well.
85. Being a teacher. Have
you ever wondered why so many girls have crushes on their teachers? It is because
being a teacher is a sign of power and knowledge, be a teacher.
86. Clean, clear skin.
Physically, nice skin is a health indicator and women will naturally be
attracted to healthy looking skin.
87. Being energetic. Have
you ever heard the expression, “he was the life of the party” This is energy,
its contagious and most people don’t have enough of it. It is very attractive.
88. Being passionate. Be in
the moment and enjoy life every day. It’s not about the destination, but about the journey. You’ll find your true love
along the way.
89. Quick mind. If you can
think on your feet, and are quick to reply to her playful teases, you’ll be seen as smart and
alert. A woman would rather be with a man that stimulates her intellectually
rather than someone who is brain dead. It is
much better to find something original to say on the spot rather than to use pick up lines.
90. Attentive to details.
It’s the little things that matter, if you notice that she’s done something different
with her hair when no one else does, she will appreciate and be attracted to
that.
91. Convicted and has strong beliefs. Be opinionated about things. If you ask someone a question
about a topic and they have something interested to say about it, that’s
attractive. Be opinionated.
92. Being in tune with her.
Being in tune with someone is one of the biggest factors in relationships. Have
you ever felt chemistry? Have you ever felt like you were on the same
wavelength? If you and your partner are similar (and you should!) this will
come naturally and will be one of the most attractive traits. The same applies
for meeting women during the day or night. If you’re picking up a girl in a
club, then high energy is appropriate because your energy will be matching
hers. If you arrive with high energy during the day and she is reading in the
library, this will clash.
93. Being attentive to details in your life. Are you meticulous? Being attentive to the details in your
life will mean that you will pay attention to the details in her life.
94. Being knowledgeable about various subjects. If you are versatile, then you’ll never be short of conversational
topics. Being flexible and able to adapt to all kinds of situations is
attractive. Go read some books.
95. Innocence. It’s no fun
when you know everything, have tried everything and have been to the edge and
back. A little bit of innocence is attractive because it makes you more human.
There’s always something that you haven’t tried, let her know and invite you to
try it with you. Asking for her advice is alright as well.
96. Challenging her. Forcing
her to be on her toes, teasing her, is exciting and attractive.
97.Be a planner. If you are
always organizing events, you are automatically the leader that has a high social
status and a lot of energy. This is very attractive; everyone wants to be
invited to outings.
98. Being open. Tell her
about your life, the real one. Cut the B.S. and you’ll stand out as someone who’s not trying to prove anything to anyone.
99. Being direct. Being
direct is very powerful and attractive. People use indirect methods because they
want to ‘feel things out’ and not get hurt. Being direct shows that you are
confident, bold and not scared of rejection.
100. Be yourself, the good yourself. You shouldn’t try to pretend to be something that you
aren’t. You should grow and continually improve, but remain genuine. Don’t hide
your faults, everyone has them. The old saying,” be yourself” is very true and
is ultimately what will attract the woman of your dreams.
DOES IT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO
BE ALL THESE THINGS IN ORDER TO ATTRACT BEAUTIFUL WOMEN INTO YOUR LIFE? NO WAY! THE
UNIVERSE HAS A WEIRD WAY
OF WORKING AND YOU’LL BE ATTRACTED TO THE ONE YOU WERE…